Experimental dating project

I built a tiny website instead of writing “ask me”.

Calm & collected on the outside, slightly insane (in a good way) on the inside. Sometimes introvert, sometimes extrovert, always doing a bit too much.

📍 Calgary 💬 Not dating casually 🧠 Actually likes real conversations
Danny
“Looks calm. Brain doing 37 tabs at once.”

The basics

Fast facts so you don’t have to interrogate me in DMs.

Age 19
Height 6’0” / 183 cm
Location Calgary, Alberta
Languages English & Russian
introvert / extrovert depending on the day coffee & walks > clubs & bottle service will actually go out in -20°

Vibe check

This is where you quietly decide if this is “yeah he’s cool” or “nope, absolutely not”.

Probably not for you if

  • You live at the club Friday–Sunday
  • “I don’t care about anything” is your whole personality
  • Your answers are “idk”, “lol”, “maybe” to everything
  • You think effort is embarrassing

We’ll probably get along if

  • You like late-night deep talks + dumb memes
  • You’re doing something with your life (job, school, projects)
  • You can roast and take a roast back
  • You actually want to meet, not collect matches like trophies

What this is (and isn’t)

This isn’t a situationship application or a “marry me tomorrow” form.

It’s “let’s see where this goes if we both put real energy in, laugh a lot, talk about real things, and don’t pretend we don’t care”.

Translation: I’m not here to waste your time or mine.

Green flags

Things people say in real life. Not just me hyping myself up.

Remembers tiny things

You mention a random detail once, and it comes back weeks later.

Insanely driven (in a mostly healthy way)

“Insane” gets thrown around a lot. Usually after I talk about ideas or projects. Not mad about it.

Can go deep without making it weird

Future, money, fears, family, mental health — I can actually talk about it like a grown human.

Red flags (fun edition)

Nothing illegal. Just mildly concerning but kind of cute.

Side-project goblin

Will disappear for a few hours and come back like “so I accidentally built a whole thing
”.

Professional overthinker

I will reread your message 10 times and still ask “wait what did you mean by this emoji”.

Voice-note enjoyer

Sometimes you’ll get a 0:57 voice rant instead of a normal text. No, I will not be stopping.

Levels of knowing me

Basically a mini game. The loot is better conversations.

Level 1

Curious viewer

You matched, clicked the link, and now you’re scrolling to see if I’m unhinged or low-key a good idea.

Action: send an opener that isn’t “hey”.

Level 2

Main character coffee

Coffee, walk, arcade — something low-pressure where we can actually talk and laugh, not shout over music.

Action: suggest an actual day, not “sometime”.

Level 3

Apps who?

We’ve hung out more than once, we talk about life not just “wyd”, and the apps slowly start to feel unnecessary.

Action: we both admit this isn’t “just talking” anymore.

Rumors & allegations

Unverified, but suspiciously consistent feedback.

“Insane” (in a good way)

Allegedly thinks too big, too often. Also allegedly pulls some of it off.

Uncomfortably observant

Notices moods, small changes, and the way you say things. Will call it out gently.

Dangerous in arcades

Might get competitive. Will absolutely celebrate if you win.

Totally real reviews

100% not written by me on a random Tuesday. Definitely not.

“Surprisingly calm for someone this insane.”

— Probably a friend

“Talks a lot about ideas. Unfortunately, it’s attractive.”

— Anonymous witness

“5 stars. Would go for a second coffee.”

— Highly credible source

Frequently avoided questions

Stuff people actually think but don’t always ask.

“Why did you make a whole website?”

Because it was funnier than pretending I’m bad at texting and writing “idk lol”.

“Are you serious or joking?”

Both.I like joking around, but I take people and relationships seriously.

“Isn’t this a bit extra?”

Yes. If you think effort is a red flag, we’re just not the same species.

Investigate further

At this point, you already know if you’re curious. Do whatever feels right.

You don’t need to send a novel. Just bring a little personality and we’ll be fine.

Cheat code openers

  • “Okay, which red flag do you think I am?”
  • “What’s your ideal Level 2 date?”
  • “I read the whole site. Do I get bonus points or what?”

If you still type “hey :)” after this, that’s between you and God.